January 05, 2014

Merely saying "I'm not gay" isn't enough

Related the former Minnesota Vikings Chris Kluwe matter noted most recently here, Hudson Taylor opines via CNN.com that heterosexual athletes who are questioned about their sexuality don't do enough if they merely say "I'm not gay."

While [Green Bay Packers QB Aaron] Rodgers effectively put an end to the discussion of personal life and vowed to "keep on trucking," what was left unsaid was any support for the LGBT community or contemplation of the broader questions such rumor-mongering raises about our sports culture and the specter of acceptance.

Why is it up to Rodgers to do that? Hudson notes in his article that Rodgers is "intensely private;" why does he have to do more than just answer the question of whether he's gay or not, let alone answer it at all? Y'see, this is where advocates for the LGBT community tend to ... lose many in the straight community who are otherwise if not completely sympathetic to their situation, at least understanding. It's not enough to just accept gay team/classmates; you have to be proactive about the lifestyle ... and even promote it. Rodgers, according to Hudson, should have added something like, "Yeah, I'm not gay but what would have been the big deal if I was?" Even though the Packers QB is, again, "intensely private."

A lot of the remainder of what Hudson says is certainly admirable: He's a [straight] college wrestling coach who has taken an active role in battling homophobia in sports. He speaks highly of the aforementioned Kluwe, but seems to take his side of the current squabble with his former team, despite the fact that the accused have vigorously denied Kluwe's allegations, and that there's little dispute that Kluwe's "outspokenness" on LGBT issues became a distraction to the Vikings when he was still on their roster.

Posted by Hube at January 5, 2014 06:42 PM | TrackBack

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I'm straight and have nothing against gays and lesbians (I'm against same-sex "marriage," and I think it has occupied way too much of our national attention, but I'm for civil unions), but what bothers me about them is how they feel compelled to throw their sexuality in others' faces. I don't understand that.

The author of the CNN article loses me when he defends Kluwe. Even my ultra-liberal sister and her boyfriend admitted that Kluwe's "activism" was becoming a distraction to the team.

Posted by: Carl at January 5, 2014 11:32 PM

Im not a terrorist, but if i was whats the big deal?

I am guessing this is the way all questions will be answered from now on. Well, except "Are you a conservative?" We know the answer to that should be

Posted by: Arthur at January 6, 2014 12:35 PM

A German retired footballer has just come out as gay. He retired quite early at 31.

He hopes it will encourage other footballers to come out so that eventually it is not an issue.

The problem with this is that he waited until he retired to come out. He obviously believed that coming out sooner would not be a good idea. In fact waiting until retirement kind of makes it a non-story.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/0/football/25628806

Posted by: Andrew at January 9, 2014 06:22 AM

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